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		<title>By: Rob</title>
		<link>http://thelifedesignproject.com/lifestyledesignersgetinthegam/comment-page-1/#comment-750</link>
		<dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks John! I&#039;m going to check out Permission Marketing. It&#039;s true, there&#039;s a level of &quot;break out&quot; thinking that happens on us when we realized we don&#039;t need to stay in this gated area we&#039;ve put ourselves in for business or for income, and we seek out new paths!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks John! I&#8217;m going to check out Permission Marketing. It&#8217;s true, there&#8217;s a level of &#8220;break out&#8221; thinking that happens on us when we realized we don&#8217;t need to stay in this gated area we&#8217;ve put ourselves in for business or for income, and we seek out new paths!</p>
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		<title>By: John R. Sedivy</title>
		<link>http://thelifedesignproject.com/lifestyledesignersgetinthegam/comment-page-1/#comment-690</link>
		<dc:creator>John R. Sedivy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 21:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Rob - I&#039;ve been making my way through your Life Design Project archives and came across this article. You give some really great advice that would be useful to any entrepreneur!

Some points that really resonated with me were Cody McKibben&#039;s realization that he did not have to play by the set rules and therefore can recreate the game, relationships are fuel, and the importance of asking permission. 

I think that eventually every entrepreneur happens upon these realizations. First waking up one morning and realizing they want something more and wondering why they are playing a game they don&#039;t enjoy and second realizing that regardless how talented they are they simply can&#039;t go it alone. 

Regarding the permission aspect of promoting those established in your field, have you read Permission Marketing by Seth Godin? If not, you should definitely check it out. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Rob &#8211; I&#8217;ve been making my way through your Life Design Project archives and came across this article. You give some really great advice that would be useful to any entrepreneur!</p>
<p>Some points that really resonated with me were Cody McKibben&#8217;s realization that he did not have to play by the set rules and therefore can recreate the game, relationships are fuel, and the importance of asking permission. </p>
<p>I think that eventually every entrepreneur happens upon these realizations. First waking up one morning and realizing they want something more and wondering why they are playing a game they don&#8217;t enjoy and second realizing that regardless how talented they are they simply can&#8217;t go it alone. </p>
<p>Regarding the permission aspect of promoting those established in your field, have you read Permission Marketing by Seth Godin? If not, you should definitely check it out. </p>
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		<title>By: robgranholm</title>
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		<dc:creator>robgranholm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Bob

Thanks for the comment. Great people right? It&#039;s something that seems to apparent but might allude a lot of us. Go to people who have gone before us, improve and adapt. Good to see you here, feel free to shoot me a message and hope to hear from you again.

@Alex

Thanks alex. I think it does make sense, you can relate to people who are similar but no one is exactly like you are. Learning those subtleties can really help you side step mistakes or make leaps toward a goal. Great comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Bob</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment. Great people right? It&#8217;s something that seems to apparent but might allude a lot of us. Go to people who have gone before us, improve and adapt. Good to see you here, feel free to shoot me a message and hope to hear from you again.</p>
<p>@Alex</p>
<p>Thanks alex. I think it does make sense, you can relate to people who are similar but no one is exactly like you are. Learning those subtleties can really help you side step mistakes or make leaps toward a goal. Great comment.</p>
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		<title>By: alex - unleash reality</title>
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		<dc:creator>alex - unleash reality</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey rob!

awwwsome site. 

resonates from tim&#039;s book still but something i&#039;d accredit ample change and positivity in my life to. 

i wouldn&#039;t be nearly close to where i am now without being around like-minded people. 

one little piece that i never heard, which i would like to have... is that like minded people aren&#039;t the same. seems obvious right... but i&#039;ve learnt more from differences with people i&#039;m similar too than similarities.

if that makes any sense :)

awwwsome site

keep well and in touch mate
alex - unleash reality</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey rob!</p>
<p>awwwsome site. </p>
<p>resonates from tim&#8217;s book still but something i&#8217;d accredit ample change and positivity in my life to. </p>
<p>i wouldn&#8217;t be nearly close to where i am now without being around like-minded people. </p>
<p>one little piece that i never heard, which i would like to have&#8230; is that like minded people aren&#8217;t the same. seems obvious right&#8230; but i&#8217;ve learnt more from differences with people i&#8217;m similar too than similarities.</p>
<p>if that makes any sense <img src='http://thelifedesignproject.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>awwwsome site</p>
<p>keep well and in touch mate<br />
alex &#8211; unleash reality</p>
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		<title>By: Bob Bessette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Bessette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 23:37:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,
  I really enjoyed what you had to say here. Good advice to go straight to the horse&#039;s mouth.  I&#039;ve been in this game for a very short time (month and a half) and I have had the pleasure of contacting and exchanging emails with Corbett Barr and Jonathan Fields.  They have been extremely helpful to me as a newbie and I&#039;m doing my best to heed their advice.  It just goes to show you the character of these individuals where they will go out of their way to help me, someone just starting out.  I am very impressed with your blog. Good luck with it.  I look forward to reading more.

Best,
Bob</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,<br />
  I really enjoyed what you had to say here. Good advice to go straight to the horse&#8217;s mouth.  I&#8217;ve been in this game for a very short time (month and a half) and I have had the pleasure of contacting and exchanging emails with Corbett Barr and Jonathan Fields.  They have been extremely helpful to me as a newbie and I&#8217;m doing my best to heed their advice.  It just goes to show you the character of these individuals where they will go out of their way to help me, someone just starting out.  I am very impressed with your blog. Good luck with it.  I look forward to reading more.</p>
<p>Best,<br />
Bob</p>
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		<title>By: robgranholm</title>
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		<dc:creator>robgranholm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 03:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Alan, glad there&#039;s something to take away, welcome and always feel free to &quot;fuel&quot; the fire here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Alan, glad there&#8217;s something to take away, welcome and always feel free to &#8220;fuel&#8221; the fire here.</p>
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		<title>By: Alan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 02:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert - fantastic post. If there&#039;s anything I take away from it, it&#039;s that &quot;relationships are fuel.&quot; Couldn&#039;t agree more, especially in that it&#039;s an undervalued dimension of lifestyle design. I&#039;m new here, but really look forward to following along.

Cheers,
Alan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert &#8211; fantastic post. If there&#8217;s anything I take away from it, it&#8217;s that &#8220;relationships are fuel.&#8221; Couldn&#8217;t agree more, especially in that it&#8217;s an undervalued dimension of lifestyle design. I&#8217;m new here, but really look forward to following along.</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Alan</p>
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		<title>By: Colin Wright</title>
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		<dc:creator>Colin Wright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find that the more I share, the more I learn. It&#039;s reciprocity, but teaching others what I know helps re-solidify those lessons in my own mind..in many cases I&#039;ve been neglecting old lessons and teaching helps me to bring the important ones forward again.

I actually started up a young professionals networking group with my ex in LA called Way Below Status Quo, and everyone involved gained from it immensely. We had green architects and urban gardeners and product designers and software developers and on and on and on, and everyone was able to gain from everyone else&#039;s experiences, despite being in different fields.

Some of my most valuable mentors, in fact, have come from wildly different fields. Business people and communicators, especially, have helped influence me and my direction.

Meeting up in person seems to help a lot, too, especially with the increasing popularity of Skyping and emailing. There&#039;s something immensely personal and rare about it, which helps the connection between two people develop that much faster. In the past people would need a shared experience to bind them together, but in this day and age (wow, I feel so old saying that), getting together IS the shared experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find that the more I share, the more I learn. It&#8217;s reciprocity, but teaching others what I know helps re-solidify those lessons in my own mind..in many cases I&#8217;ve been neglecting old lessons and teaching helps me to bring the important ones forward again.</p>
<p>I actually started up a young professionals networking group with my ex in LA called Way Below Status Quo, and everyone involved gained from it immensely. We had green architects and urban gardeners and product designers and software developers and on and on and on, and everyone was able to gain from everyone else&#8217;s experiences, despite being in different fields.</p>
<p>Some of my most valuable mentors, in fact, have come from wildly different fields. Business people and communicators, especially, have helped influence me and my direction.</p>
<p>Meeting up in person seems to help a lot, too, especially with the increasing popularity of Skyping and emailing. There&#8217;s something immensely personal and rare about it, which helps the connection between two people develop that much faster. In the past people would need a shared experience to bind them together, but in this day and age (wow, I feel so old saying that), getting together IS the shared experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Nate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 14:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s awesome that you got in contact with Tim Ferriss. Very cool. I really understand what you mean when you say that getting in contact with people who have similar interests, or people who have kind of &quot;made it&quot; charges you up. It&#039;s happened to me quite a few times. Great post man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s awesome that you got in contact with Tim Ferriss. Very cool. I really understand what you mean when you say that getting in contact with people who have similar interests, or people who have kind of &#8220;made it&#8221; charges you up. It&#8217;s happened to me quite a few times. Great post man.</p>
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		<title>By: robgranholm</title>
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		<dc:creator>robgranholm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 13:35:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ John Indeed it is, I hope I continue to reach out as I have a natural tendency to just try and do something despite knowing if it will work or not. I contacted Tim through doing exactly what he says in his book ironically. He doesn’t have any numbers that I found to work, so I had to use e-mail and some polite persistence. I asked him about doing a companion book to the 4 Hour Work Week and to license his content as he suggests in his “muse” chapter. He unfortunately turned it down, citing he is actually revising the book for 2010…thanks for the comment!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ John Indeed it is, I hope I continue to reach out as I have a natural tendency to just try and do something despite knowing if it will work or not. I contacted Tim through doing exactly what he says in his book ironically. He doesn’t have any numbers that I found to work, so I had to use e-mail and some polite persistence. I asked him about doing a companion book to the 4 Hour Work Week and to license his content as he suggests in his “muse” chapter. He unfortunately turned it down, citing he is actually revising the book for 2010…thanks for the comment!</p>
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